Years ago I stumbled upon the most amazing “junk find”!

I was strolling through a second hand store when I found a pottery crafted wall hanging.

It had muted copper colors and was a perfect match for a lonely wall in our guest bedroom.

What was even more amazing was the inscribed quote about legacy.

It’s a little long but worth the read.

Legacy…

“The cumulative effects of an individual’s life which have the potential to influence future generations-manifested in those beliefs, attitudes, philosophies,  talents, and traits that were impactful enough during the course of a lifetime to have a continuing sway.”

 “Continuing sway.” Is there anything that has more continuing sway than a mother?

No doubt the word “mother” brings forth unique thoughts for each one of us.

For some it’s warmth & safety.

For others it’s encouragement or the example of a life characterized by hard work .

For yet others, the word stirs up thoughts of laughter, lightheartedness and perspective.

Whatever the characteristic, “mother” is often equated with love.

I know that’s the kind of legacy I want to leave.

However…

This morning my quiet time was haunted by the memory of the less than gracious tongue I had with my children the night before.

I wish I never lost my patience.  I wish I were the best Mom ever.  I wish I were perfect.

My “Mother’s Day Legacy” was in need of a boost.

Fortunately, the forgiveness I found this morning is the same kind of forgiveness that’s flows freely at 1 North Harmon.

I used to beat myself with a stick over my maternal failings but I’ve learned it doesn’t do any good.

Instead, I take encouragement from what I read this morning.

“So chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility  quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense…And regardless of what else you put on, wear love, It’s your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it.”  Col. 3:12-14 MSG

Bottom line…I have a legacy of love to leave and it begins with me pushing the “re-start” button this very minute.

In fact, I think I’ll go get dressed now…in my “basic, all-purpose garment”!

Blessings this upcoming Mother’s Day!

Your DoAhead Friend,